We can't please everyone
I can never make her happy,no matter how much i try but i can't.After God only she knows what bad i did to her!,and i so yearn to know it.
"I need your help in making my assignment!"
"Yes!i'll don't worry!"
"I need your help in making my presentation!"
"I surely will!"
"I need some books!can you please bring?!"
"Oh!why not!"
And when i do all these things she suddenly forgets everything and says
"You should be a politician you know?!"
"You deal people with your brain."
And once she said about me that i use people and friendship is nothing for me.I was so surprised like i ever tried to be kind and humble to her but she always think harsh about me.
I knew from the very first day that she doesn't like me but i thought maybe with the time she will show kindness to me but the time never came and she stayed harsh.I firstly,tried to avoid her harshness but how much can we avoid?a day comes when it hurts and really hurts.I,sometimes,catch her hostile eyes gazing at me with full hate and i,then,scarily turn my face back.
I could fill the blank when a dear friend of mine asked us to make a note on her personality and when i had a glance on this girl's note i could really fill the blank which was left unfilled in my mind.
"When you leave us and get attached with......."
Why?i mean why she does so.My heart really ached at that time.But who cares?.It's only she who has much time to notice me and then criticize me.No one has enough time,do you have?no!do i have?no!.It's only she!
You should watch me in the class.A dead-silent girl playing with her one leg,moving it spontaneously and gazing at a thing for nothing.And when i do this i am told next day that how much attitude i possess.And i note that the people who criticize are those who mostly come to me to do their help in their needs.And when their work gets done they become stranger.How selfish and mean we human beings are.What we want is only our happiness and never note that how it effects others.
Sometimes,i get so hurt but then i think you can't please everyone and then i move on!



Yes, it's true that we can't please everyone. No matter how much you do, nothing changes. So, let's just give and forget. If they can take and forget, why can't we give and forget? :)
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DeleteWow ! I had such friends in my University days.One was very close. She was so close to me yet hurt me so much. Don't know where she is now. We finished University,got a job, got married and drifted apart...
ReplyDeleteI know it hurts. But I guess God has different plans for both of you just like God had plans for me and my friend..now, we no longer know about each other..yet once upon a time, all these seemed so important !
Now it seems important for me but may be with the time it won't be that important:)..Time heals.
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DeleteAww..this one is sad, but you know I too had 2 such friends. People love to use others for their own benefit. Its a cruel world, true love or true friendship is something rare just like real diamonds!
ReplyDeleteTrue!
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