An Open Letter To You...

Dearest You,

Do not marry me for the sake of marriage.Do not marry me because you want someone to be at your side in old age.I am not a nurse.Do not marry me because you want someone to cook for you.I am not a chef.No.

Marry me because I assure you that I hold so much affection for you.Marry me because we are meant to be.Marry me because we are alike.We are curious to explore each other.We wish to know each other.Yes.

Do not take me as someone who is backward or conservative.I wish to be a housewife because I want to protect our family against all the odds.The age when girls think about their prince charming, I used to promise myself that my children won't know how it feels to be ignored.They would never know what insecurity is and how it feels.

I wish to be a housewife because I don't want to make our relation boring.I want to be a wife who will always keep alive the charm of this bonding.I want it to be something amazing.Something adventurous and something tender.

Marriage is different.It is not the union of two people.It is the reconciliation of two minds.It is about how two persons make their life beautiful and peaceful.It is about redefining love in the context of understanding each other.If a woman yields herself to the man, it doesn't make her conservative.No.It is the devotion.I always wanted to be a wife who encourages her husband and who would make him believe that he is the most amazing person she has ever seen.You are amazing.

Marriage is to embrace each other's faults and to empathize with your partner.I know I wouldn't be conventional nagging wife.No.I will make my life wonderful.Yes.

I am feeling myself like those droplets on which you have glistened your rays like the sun and, now, I am nurturing a rainbow within me.Seven Zainabs in one.Yeah, sometimes, I feel romantic.Sometimes, a sage and the other time, a kid who is waiting for her result.

Thomas Hardy says that nature and weather affect human life.It is calm and it is affecting and I am feeling you around me.

Love.