Desi Relations...
In morning,I was blank and had nothing significant to write but,at this moment,so many thoughts are encountering my mind.Life is strange,Isn't It? I am going to sound like Izdiher (It's not that easy by the way.)
A dear friend of mine got engaged.Yayy! But it was a disastrous news on her part as she loved somebody else.The boy she loved is,now,under constant torture and my friend is so sorry for him.According to her,she can handle herself but is really worried for him.F....U...!!! Ok.Let me be decent.He is trying to convince her that they must do something which will break her engagement.My "poor" friend is depressed as she doesn't know how to handle it all.I talked on this for hours with her.She is a girl who can change her mind at any moment.I know she can well go through with it.Her name is frailty lol :P sorry.
She:Mein use pyaar nai krti :(
Me:Kr lo gi ahista ahista.
She:Per wo(reffering to her bf)
Me:tumhy kha tha mene na pro in chkro mein
She:Mjhy kiya pta tha :/
Me:Dekho he(her bf) proposed you when you were singal.agr tb tumhy tumhara fiance b propose kr deta to tum ne,i bet,maan jana tha.hai na?
She:han :/
Me:smjh lo ab b tum singal ho.
Reh gya lrka!to hua kuch yunh k ik hota tha lrka.What he will do now?He will for sure cry and mourn.BUT!BUT!BUT!for a day or two or three or zada se zada for a week.He will forget.He will surely forget.He will get other "counselors" A bullshit!
She:kisi ka dill nai tootna chahye tha :(
Me:nai tuta kisi ka b dill yaar,tum bs apna khyaal rkho.Ik din roye ga do din roye ga ik din smjh jaye ga tum dfa kro.
She:Hmm
Such are the desi relations here in Pakistan.Boy and girls start chatting and chat for a long time and one day Girl's mother finds a better match for her and two hearts break.Sad?Emotional? lol NO!
The girl will get herself married with that "better-match" who,too,might have broken some other girl's heart and in this way both will get married after a failure of a relationship.
She: Wo bohat khofnak msg krta hai :(
Me:Because he knows messages are being received and felt.Block him and you'll have no more worries.
She:Hmm.
Her "hmmm" is kind of her conflict.She loves him and at the same time she is helpless.She can't leave him because she loves him and he is demanding her to prove it.What she will do now? Saddening?NO!
It's a melodrama people.And the drama never ends.They both are "little infinities"in the other"bigger infinities" and one day,they both will have to face the oblivion. (ha-ha-ha I just quoted from Faults in Our Stars.)
The time they will part will be the time for another couple to start chatting and enjoy a little time's love.And one day they will be forgotten by each others too.The process is never-ending.So,never mind what hell they both are feeling right now because tomorrow or day after tomorrow boy is gonna have a "counselor" type friend,with whom he will shortly fall in love and girl (my friend) is gonna receive a romantic message from his fiance and she won't resist his love.(If he really does)
So this is how this desi-relation works.
Another friend's story is there. (She is not my friend but my friend's friend.Here i will call her my friend to ease you :P)
Her boyfriend told him all the depressed things that how much he love him and how he can't live without her.The other day,she was showing me his engagement pictures with other girl in which he was laughing with intense happiness.(Go and _____ yourself man!) My friend was no less than him.She started talking with another guy who,too,had a break up with his girl friend.So,two broken hearts joined.He proposed my friend and she accepted.Damn!
So,don't bother with them.They know how to handle the circumstances.
Cycle goes like this:
(i)Girl--------Loves--------Boy
(ii)Hurdles--------Breakups
(iii)Temporarily Pain
(iv)Another Relation-------Recycling love
And then:
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There are a few types of girls here in Pakistan which i want to mention.
Film: (Emotional)Who might tell you that they love you till the end of their breathes but anyhow,they tell the same thing to every boy.
Item:(Hot) Such girls usually are those "hmsaayi types" which you will find living in your neighbor.Such girls will never complete their educations and usually are the center of interest of all the area's boys..
Bitches:(Hi-fi) Such are the girls who will have one bf and thousands of male "friend".Here in this category you'll find those "counselors"
Meesni:(It's me :P) no comments :P
After elaborating you the condition of relationships in Pakistan,I want to conclude it all.
When people are changing their beloved and lovers.When they are moving on.I am a freaking___________to stuck myself at one place and can't give up on this fucking thing!!.It depresses me,really!I mean why can't I?Why cant i move on?What the freaking hell thing stops me from changing my mind?I can throw light on every aspect of society but never would i be able to solve my problems.Frustrated!
Good bye!
To Hell!
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| mro! |





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